Tuesday, February 12, 2013

...und nehmen immer Abschied


 Earring: Nobletown Vintage
Boots: Vintage

 I bought this dress as my birthday dress for last year from the lovely Lauren of Blooming Leopold.  It's served me well.  It's the perfect celebration dress, because besides the rich fabric and touch of gold, the shape makes it ideal for eating and drinking to excess.  Which is what most celebrations are all about, besides fellowship and laughter, of course.  Merriment, in other words.  It's a perfect dress for merriment.  I feel the only thing missing is a crown of daisies.


 The title quote is from Rilke's eighth Elegie from Duino Elegies.  The full line is "So leben wir und nehmen immer Abschied," which translates to "And so we live here, forever taking leave."  I plan to get the line tattooed somewhere, if I can figure out the ideal real estate.  If you ever want a spiritual experience, light some candles or a single light and sit in a small room at night and read the Duino Elegies.  All of them.  And while you're at it, go ahead and read the Sonnets to Orpheus and just really devastate yourself/do yourself a favor.  You'll feel deeply healed, whatever existential crisis is ailing you.

It's been raining yesterday and today, and I wish that nothing were looming except my book (I'm reading Madame Bovary, finally), my blanket, and perhaps a bit of Scotch.  But I have schoolwork following me constantly these days like the Furies, with no Deus ex Machina in sight.  At least I only have two days left of work before my first day off in 11.

Hope your day has been wonderful, or zipped along, if not.  Read some Rilke.  You'll feel better.



Monday, February 11, 2013

They'll stay at the carnival, but they'll never win you back


 Tunic: Mara Hoffman (from work
Jacket: Doma (thrifted)
Cords: Sanctuary (from work)
Boots: Sam Edelman
EarringsNobletown Vintage
Necklace: gift from Matt
Watch: DKNY

 So, I'm pretty happy about the fact that we started carrying Mara Hoffman at the store.  Because I am extremely selfish and want ALL OF THE THINGS for myself and: employee discount.  So, for my birthday, I gifted myself this tunic.  I am completely in love and can't wait to wear it with shorts in the summer.  It's technically a cover up, but as with many of Mara Hoffman's pieces, it's too pretty to just wear over a swimsuit!  Also, it's not like I'm ever going away any time soon, because all I ever do is work and then schoolwork (and eat and drink and exercise and listen to records and shoot the breeze with my husband.)  Do you hear that?  Hmm...sounds like a very small violin....
 
This jacket proves that I don't just wear my fur-collar coat everyday!  Not that I think you would blame me if I did, because you have now seen it and you *get it,* I'm sure.  But this jacket is another, goodun -- in fact, I think it's kind of perfect.  It was another thrift/resale store find.  I like to think of it as having been free, because I was selling clothing and used the credit to buy it.  Magical thinking -- it's fun!  And while the blog may not have reflected this yet, these boots have hardly left my feet most of the summer.  And do you see that there?  Yeah, it's lipstick.  I really stepped up my game the other day when I took these pictures, you guys!  I suddenly remembered that I manage a high-end boutique and need to look like someone whose sartorial advice you would trust and then hand over your money to.  One of these days, I'll go ahead and take a picture of what my most-days uniform has been lately, which is mostly these boots, black glorified stretch pants, a long top, and a fuzzy sweater.  Wow, I know how that sounds, but I swear the effect is much more chic than what you're imagining! (I hope.)

Anyway, with only a couple of exceptions, all of my lipsticks are YSL, which are stupid expensive and I hate myself a little bit every time I buy one BUT.  My lips are in a near constant state of dry and chapped (such that when I got my last physical a couple months ago, my doctor actually asked me "why are your lips so chapped?" in a kind of weirdly accusatory manner.  Her bedside manner was lacking to say the least) and the YSL lipsticks are crazy moisturizing and allow me to wear matte colors without looking like I have a wall of peeling paint on my face.  Also, the lasting power is insane, so in the long run, I'll probably save money on lipsticks, because I've had my YSL lipsticks for years and I'm nowhere near the end of them.  So, in my opinion, if you care about makeup, this is one of those cases where investing makes a big difference, especially if you have giant desert wasteland lips like I do.  And that's not magical thinking, that is REALTALK.

And because I am [trying to be] a good blogger, I took some pictures sans jacket, because we must SUFFER for our ART (i.e. our narcissism.)  I'm growing my bangs out, but I'm actually not hating how my looks right now.  I've been able to sweep my bangs to the side and change my part and get a mild Veronica Lake thing going, which I'm planning to exaggerate on Saturday for my B-Day celebration when I go have my first Drybar experience.  Has anyone ever been?  Anyone have any idea what I can expect, having such fine, thin hair?  I figure it's worth a try.

This week I can look forward to my first day off in 11 days.  Yes, I do make the schedule.  It's just that I hate myself, you see.  Actually, it's because I wanted particular days off and I felt bad about punishing anyone else with weird hours, so I just gave myself the worst schedule ever in order to make it work.  Honestly, for an atheist, I have a pretty strong guilt complex and kind of always have.  Not sure why, but there it is! 

Bonus awesome hair/80s music video shot!  Ha, I couldn't not include this one.


Hope your Monday is treating you peachy so far!



Thursday, February 7, 2013

Thursday Happy Hour: The Joys of Juniper

Welcome back to another Thursday Happy Hour, where I celebrate my love for all things booze!  This week's installment is on another of my favorite spirits: gin.  I feel like gin was rather underappreciated for awhile there; perhaps I'm imagining things, but it seemed as though everyone was drinking vodka and wrinkling their noses at gin.  Fortunately -- and rightly so! -- however, gin is having a renaissance with the rise of the mixologist and can be seen featured on overpriced cocktail menus in most hipster havens and mid-level cities across America.

comic from Natalie Dee
 As for me, I've been a gin girl since the moment I started drinking, with an appreciation for the spirit passed on to me by my Bombay Sapphire-loving father.  And as a result, Sapphire is still, to me, the pinnacle of gin.  Admittedly, we can't really afford to stock our home bar with top shelf gin, so the only time I really have the good stuff is when visiting parents and thus, Bombay Sapphire equals most of my knowledge of "the good stuff."  Which is not a complaint, mind you, because it's delicious, and many consider it one of the best gins in the world.  So.  I also seem to recall getting to try Hendricks once or twice, and that, too, is a delight with its light, cucumber-flavor

As with bourbon (and as with all things), Matt and I are always on the lookout for the best quality we can get for a lesser price point.  The thing that is delightful about gin is the taste; unlike vodka, gin has flavor, and that's part of the point.  I understood the allure of vodka in college when the goal was to get as drunk as possible in the shortest amount of time so that you could get on with the business of doing things you were going to regret the next morning, but we're all sophisticated adults now, with slightly more high level goals.  And even if those goals still involve getting drunk and doing regrettable things, let's sip on something a little bit more interesting beforehand, shall we?

At any rate, the trick with finding a good quality gin that's a good deal is to get a decent flavor, without it being too harsh.  Cheap gins tend to be really overpowering in their juniper-flavor and burniness (tm), while a lot of mid-level gins tend to be too smooth, without much gin-flavor at all.  My go-to for martinis and classic gin cocktails is usually New Amsterdam gin.  It's a little too smooth and a little on the tasteless side to be completely honest, but it's a good price point (around $18 for a large bottle) and has enough flavor to lend itself nicely to most classic gin cocktails, even martinis.  We recently branched out and tried a new gin called Kinsey, that I thought was really tasteless at first, but it's been growing on me a little.  It makes a decent martini, and a nice gin old-fashioned, but I still think it's a bit too much on the tasteless-side, and I think the New Amsterdam has perhaps a little more bite, which I like.

Pro-tip: In the summer months, we become a two-gin household, where we have our good gin for classic cocktails where the taste of the gin matters, and then our gin-and-tonic gin, because in the summers here, few things are as refreshing as a gin and tonic, but the taste of the gin matters less when mixed with tonic water (unless you're my father, whose gin and tonics are gins with a splash of tonic.)  Stretches the budget, and the gin!  Win-win.

But regardless of what brand of gin you go with, how will you drink it (besides through your mouth and down your throat, you smartasses)?  Why, in a delicious cocktail, most likely!  Probably my most oft enjoyed gin cocktail (besides a gin and tonic) is a dirty martini (which you should know how to make by now, my goodess!)  But sometimes to vary it, I sip one of the following three:

The Bee's Knees



This is a great, strong cocktail, that pleases even people who think they don't like the flavor of gin, or even any strong alcohols.  I once served this to a friend who only drinks super fruity drinks or Riesling or champagne, and she loved this drink and kept wanting me to make it for her.  It's a deceptively simple drink, but quite delicious, with a pleasant touch of sweetness.  Don't worry about the residue honey in your cocktail shaker; the honey isn't supposed to dissolve completely in the gin, just lightly flavor and infuse it.

1 1/2 gin
1 tsp honey
Generous squeeze of lemon juice

Combine all ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice.  Shakeshakeshake.  Strain over an up class and serve.  And while you're at it, why not finish with a lemon peel or a slice of lemon, you classy minx, you?

Negroni


Another classic, the Negroni requires the acquisition of a bottle of -- and a taste for -- Campari.  But let me tell you, once you acquire the taste for Campari, whoo boy!  Few things start off a night of classy indulgence quite like a Negroni -- for me, it is to a spaghetti Bolognese dinner what a martini is to a steak dinner (you're welcome for the SAT prep): the perfect apertif.

1 1/2 oz gin
3/4 oz Campari
1/2 oz sweet vermouth

Mix all ingredients in a cocktail shaker with ice.  Shake it like a Polaroid picture.  Strain over an up glass.  Then go ahead and garnish with an orange peel, because a drink worth making is worth drinking right.

Gin Old-Fashioned


I came across this drink recipe on Esquire's site and I'm very glad I did.  There are three variations, each more delightful than the last.

First, for the classic Gin Old-Fashioned, you simply put a sugar cube in an old-fashioned class, shake a few dashes of bitters on top and muddle with 1tsp water until sugar dissolves.  Stir in 2oz of gin and add a couple of ice cubes.  Done.

The second variation, called a Fancy Gin Old-Fashioned, is the exact same drink, except you take a thin strip of lemon peel and squeeze it over the glass, then rub it along the rim.  You'd think it wouldn't make a difference, but you would be WRONG.  This is the version I drink the most, because besides being a fancy lady, it's easy to make.

However, if I've got the ingredients and am feeling even fancier, the Esquire-recommended Improved Gin Old-Fashioned is delicious.  It's the exact same drink as the Fancy Gin Old-Fashioned (you can use simple syrup, btw, instead of the muddled sugar), but with the addition of a tsp of Cointreau (I used the Agavero orange liqeur when I made it, and that worked just fine.)

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What are your favorite brands of gin?  What are your favorite gin drinks?  Do you sometimes have "off-nights?"  What are those, by the way?

Happy drinking!


Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Wishlists


I love birthdays. It's no secret to anyone who knows me. It doesn't even have to be mine; I love anyone's birthday. It helps if I get to at least have some hand in planning it, as doing so appeals to my natural love of extravagance.  I love any excuse to make a fuss.

Of course, I *also* enjoy any reason for a fuss to be made over me, as well.  I'm not one of those people who shies away from such things.  Perhaps some of it has to do with being a youngest child and an only daughter, but I guess if we're getting all pscyhoanalytical, I probably have a bit of a princess complex, so I enjoy making people do what I want to do for a day or night, or being surprised with something or lavished with attention and gifts and compliments.  God, that makes me sound awful, haha.  But only on my birthday, I promise!  I'm much less obnoxious most other days of the year.

Anyway, with my birthday just a few weeks away, it's difficult not to think about some of the things I've been having my eye on.  And obviously many of them are fashion-related.
 
jewelry yes

As I've been trying to be more conscientious with my wardrobe, however, I've been eyeing accessories much more, jewelry in particular.  I really have a dearth of jewelry that I truly love.  I have a tendency to wear the same things all the time -- which I actually have no problem with, because I enjoy the notion of "signature" pieces.  I lack some key ones, however; for example I have zero bracelets, and only one ring besides my engagement ring -- which is especially sad, because ever since I was in middle school I loved the look of lots and lots of rings at once, but have rarely had the rings to fulfill this dream. It doesn't help that I have baby fingers (my wedding ring is a 3 1/2.) That's why handmade Etsy sellers are so clutch!  Also, I rarely find ones I love - I'm quite picky and specific with jewelry.  But Laurel Hill's Etsy shop is full of jewelry I love, including the ring on the bottom right.  I'm really drawn to pieces that mix brass and silver, too, in no small part because it allows my engagement and wedding rings to fit more seamlessly into the rest of my look.  On the necklace front, I have no long necklaces.  I love the Madewell piece - it's exactly the kind of things I could wear with everything, especially the more structural pieces and modern basics I've been drawn to lately.

shoes

Also, I've realized I don't have much in the way of shoes. Matt, of course, would laugh at this, but that is because he is a BOY and not to be all reinforcing heteronormative gender roles but SORRY THEY JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND THESE THINGS. And, truly, I do basically wear the same pairs of shoes over and over again, because I really don't have many pairs.  And while I like this idea with jewelry, it's significantly more limiting in footwear. I'm in need of shoes for the coming spring and summer months, as well as some nice flats and shoes to match all of my navy pieces (I've been on a navy kick.)  Also, I'm not gonna lie, I'm kind of into the sneaker wedge thing - don't judge me!
clothing

And because I am ME, there are clothing things I want as well.  Dresses, of course, but I'm trying to expand!  So look!  A blazer!  And leather leggings that in about a month will be of no use to me for the next six, but I can see being a basic I'll make use of for years.

By the way,  I've added a whole bunch of new items to the Etsy shop.  I'll do a formal shop update post soon, when I have a few more of the items I've saved listed, but if you want a sneak peek, please take a look!
other things

Oh, and lastly, two things I obviously need: a shirt that embodies my home state, and a Triforce lamp (thanks for the link, John!)  Because: duh.

What are you currently lusting after?  What key pieces is your wardrobe missing or what categories need some beefing up?  When is your birthday?

Most importantly, what are you buying me for mine?

Friday, January 25, 2013

OTP

 Sunglasses: Prada, birthday gift from Matt last year
Coat: vintage
Top: Frenzii, from the store
Jeans: Sanctuary, from the store
Necklace: vintage
Purse: Foley + Corrina, eBay
Shoes: probably illegal but completely spot on Charlotte Olympia knock-offs from Etsy (the store has been shut down)
     
In the local Atlanta lingo, there's a distinction between the city proper and the areas that are "OTP" - outside the Perimeter, referring to I285, the Perimeter highway that rings Atlanta.  OTP is pretty much synonymous with suburban purgatory in the eyes of many Atlantans, a place where the hip and savvy young Atlantans would never think of going.  The ironic thing, of course, is that there are a lot of really cool areas OTP, and Atlanta, itself, has a great many areas inside the Perimeter that are very suburban.  Also, the Perimeter encompasses some small cities that aren't actually part of Atlanta, like College Park and Decatur, so the actual distinction is pretty fuzzy.  

And even though the Perimeter rings the entire city, the term "OTP" primarily refers to the cities immediately north of Atlanta.  And a lot of it IS a suburban wasteland, but there are little oases in some of these cities with historic squares, and wonderful bars and restaurants - a lot of them, in fact, have a great deal of the charm and walkability that much of Atlanta itself lacks.

Matt and I do not, in fact, live OTP, but we're pretty close now that we've movedI actually really love where we live, as far as options in Atlanta go: we're right by the river and a bunch of National Recreation Areas, and it's easy to get both out of and into the city since we're right off the highway.  And the fact is, that's just how things are done in Atlanta, spread out and car-dependent as it is.  In many ways, it's actually easier for us to get into different parts of the city from where we live now than it was from where we used to live, which was technically more "in town."  If I had my druthers, or if we were settling here (gods forbid), I'd probably pick the Westside or Midtown as my ideal place to live, but really, hardly any place in Atlanta is perfect, and where we live has a lot of perks, including the chance to explore some of these OTP cities.

Of course, for every gem, there's a dud or two.  These pictures were taken awhile ago (as you can maybe tell by my super-short bangs, an attempt to do it myself) when I decided to check out Norcross.  I had heard it had a historic area, and I was expecting another Marietta Square or downtown Roswell.  Unfortunately, the historic area was VERY small.  It was pretty, and right on some train tracks, which gave it a nice old-timey feel.  And it seemed like the restaurants there were pretty cool.  But there weren't really any shops and I walked the whole thing and saw all there was to see in about five minutes.  Also, this park where I took the pictures had speakers in it and was softly piping music into every corner of the park, which was creepy as hell.  I find it hard to trust a place that needs a constant soundtrack for their outdoors.

Anyway, TL;DR version: if you live near Norcross, I'm sure it's pretty nice, but I wouldn't go at all out of the way to visit.  Unless you're traveling up Buford Hwy for some sick ass pho, in which case, I'm jealous and can I come?
 

Here's this coat again!  And I'm wearing it today, too.  I mean, honestly, how can I not?  Look at this thing!  I should probably just give this coat it's own tag on the blog.  I should definitely name it.  Man, how have I not done that yet?



Thursday, January 24, 2013

Thursday Happy Hour: An Ode to Bourbon


Of the [very few] benefits of living in Atlanta/the South, I count my love of bourbon highly among them.  It's not that I didn't know or like bourbon before moving to the south -- I liked my brown liquors as much as my clear ones, if not moreso.  But the subtleties of each of these brown liquors were lost on me until moving to the South where bourbon is a point of pride.

Now I'm a bona fide bourbon lover.  A good bourbon is delightful neat or with a couple of ice cubes.  A dash of orange bitters isn't necessary, but never hurts.  Mix it up in a Manhattan or an Old Fashioned (though these are not my favorite uses for bourbon, nor is bourbon my favorite whiskey for these drinks) or, one of my favorite bourbon drinks and another gift the South has given me, a Mint Julep.



One of my favorite bourbons is Bulleit.  It's also a favorite among my friends.  In fact, it's almost a currency among us, bottles making their way around my circle of friends as we go to each others homes.  I would suspect it's the same bottle being passed around, except that about half of it gets drunk up each visit.

Bourbon used to only be true bourbon if it was made in Bourbon County, Kentucky, and while many famous bourbons are still being made in Bourbon Co (including Bulleit, as well as Jim Beam, Woodford Reserve, Wild Turkey, and Maker's Mark), bourbon making is no longer strictly confined to Bourbon Co and can be made anywhere in the United States (it still has to be made in the US of A to generally be allowed to call itself "bourbon.")  What makes bourbon bourbon, then, has to do with what it's made of and how it's made.

First, it must be made from at least 51% corn (whereas other whiskey can be made from rye, wheat, barley and/or corn in pretty much any combination and percentage (unless it's Rye)) and it must be aged in new, charred-oak barrels (as opposed to other whiskeys, which are aged in oak barrels, minus the charcoal.)

"But what does this mean for the taste!" you ask (and understandably.)  Well, bourbons tend to have a distinct sweetness to them.  There's a special smoothness to bourbon, as well.  Beyond that, the flavors of bourbons vary just as much as other whiskeys.

I like my bourbon to be not-too-sweet, and not-too-smooth.  I generally find Maker's to be too sweet and for most cheap bourbons to have too much bite.  The idea for me is a hint of sweetness, without it being cloying, and smooth enough to sip neat, but with a little bit of burn to tickle the tongue, warm the blood, and make hairy the chest.  Bulleit has a delightful little bite to it, while still being as sippable as wine (seriously, this stuff is dangerous.)  We also recently discovered a brand called Larceny, which is just as good as Bulleit, in my opinion, but about six dollars cheaper.  It's got the same sweet-but-not-too-sweet, smooth-but-with-a-bite quality as Bulleit, and a nice caramel and vanilla richness to it.


And if either of those are too rich for your blood (which they often are for us) Old Charter makes a decent enough bourbon in a pinch that's just fine with a few ice cubes and an iron constitution.

Like I said, I like to drink my good bourbons neat or with a few ice cubes, generally.  And many of the cocktails that call for bourbon, whiskey or rye I generally prefer with whiskey or rye (many such cocktails involve adding sweetness, which good bourbons, even the not too sweet ones, rarely need.)  So I'm including only one cocktail recipe in this post, for the lovely Mint Julep.  In another post, we'll talk about the wonderful world of rye, and you'll get more cocktail recipes then, like the classic Manhattan and Old Fashioned.

Mint Julep:
Makes 1 drink

3oz bourbon
1 tsp water
1 tsp sugar
handful of mint
Ice cubes



Mix the water and sugar in a lowball glass until it dissolves.  Add mint and muddle.  Add ice cubes and pour bourbon over.  Drink!

I'm no expert, certainly, just an aficionado, so your notes and comments are greatly appreciated!  What is your favorite bourbon?  What are your favorite cocktails?  Like other whiskeys better than bourbon?  Do tell!




Wednesday, January 23, 2013

Love is the Drug


 Coat: Vintage
Dress: Vintage
Necklace: Thrifted
Boots: Vintage, from Stellah's Groove
Earrings: Noble Town Vintage 

You know those quizzes that you sometimes see online, where you figure out what decade you "are" or should have been born in?  I've figured out that the 70s are my spirit decade.  Specifically, the early to mid 70s.  Really, if you look at me, it's not that hard to figure out, I suppose.  I've got a giant dose of hippie in me -- there may or may not be some patchouli in my veins.  I love leather and fur collars and fringe and feathers.  Most of my favorite music is from around then.  I love Neil Young and Joni Mitchell and Stevie Nicks and Fleetwood Mac and the Band.  Bowie, obviously.  And Roxy Music (who I've had the pleasure of introducing Matt to.)  I love Bob Dylan, obviously, but have a special place in my heart for 70s era Dylan.   Basically, my style inspiration is the Rolling Thunder Revue.  And we can throw Bruce Springsteen in here, too, because he's the Boss and Born to Run came out in 1975.  So.

Given all that, it probably wouldn't surprise you to know that this outfit is one of my favorites.  Though, really anything with this coat becomes my favorite.  This coat = instant cool and instant fabulousity (which is one order of awesome up from fabulousness.)  
  
On another note, I need a new camera.  I can't seem to get this damn thing to focus without luck, and I think it's having a hard time holding a charge; I swear I've put in new batteries multiple times, yet it insists that it's low on energy.  *sigh*  Always something.

Other than that, however, things have been busybusy.  Christmas was lovely; we went to Seattle to see my family.  My nephew is just the cutest, it's unreal.  My brother must be in heaven, because AJ is completely sports obsessed already; most of the words he knows are "football," "baseball," "touchdown," "Buster Posey," and "49ers."  I can only imagine what a happy little guy he was this past Sunday!  Then when we got back home, Matt's parents and one of his brothers visited us soon afterward.  So it's been a nice dose of family, recently.

And this past weekend was particular crazy: I had the pleasure of helping a dear friend propose to her girlfriend (also my dear friend), by surprising her and singing "Glad You Came" with some other friends at a fancy cocktail place.  The next night was taco (and margarita *cough cough*) night with some other friends, as well as a Seinfeld board game (guess who got her ass kicked!)  And Sunday, of course, was the NFC championship.  I'm getting used to being the only one in Atlanta who's ever happy, sports-wise, since the SF teams play in the same leagues as the Atlanta teams.  Oh well!  If it makes Atlanta feel better, it's not like I enjoy being away from my fellow fans and being hated on.

Oh, and I had another amazing record store find this weekend: Roxy Music Sirens.  I only need two more, now, and I'll be pretty much set with my Roxy Music collection. (This is exciting.)

As for school, the end is in sight now!  Just two more quarters.  Which of course makes managing the store all the more difficult.  It's like the closer the end gets, the harder it becomes to keep going with my job.  Luckily, the opposite is happening with school, and I'm really excited about this quarter and the next one.  I'm going into Information Architecture/Usability/Cataloging and Metadata/Knowledge Management, guys!  How nerdsexy do those things sound?

How was your weekend?  Do you give a crap about sports?  Are you rooting for the 49ers (say yes)?  What's your spirit decade?

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